The purposes of the study were to find out relatives' opinions about the care of dying patients as well as to find out how relatives assess the nursing care which was given to their nearest on the hospital wards. In order to collect the data for the study, the family members of patients (N = 628) who had died not more than one year before in the hospital, were interviewed. The interviewing was done by sending a questionnaire to every other relative (N = 314), 210 of which (62%) answered the questions. The answers to the structured questions were analyzed with the SAS-software and open-ended questions by the content analysis method. The relatives found that the hospital ward was quite a suitable environment for the nursing care of a dying patient. They found visiting hours flexible but they wished that they had the possibility to rest or stay over night in the hospital. The health care professionals responsible for the care of dying patients were considered to succeed in the field of the patient's rest and hygiene, but they took less well care of patient's physical exercise and dental hygiene. The relatives were satisfied with the pain relief the patient got. According to the relatives, examinations, medication, nursing interventions or the "futile" care given did not cause additional suffering. Although the nurses did not response to patients' spiritual well-being or needs of affections, they were able to make the patients happy with their kindness, presence and with good basic care. The relatives were best informed about patients' every day well-being, medication as well as practical matters concerning the time after the death of the patient. If the patient was transferred to another hospital for the terminal care, the relatives found, however, that they didn't get enough information of the situation. The health care professionals did not console the relatives for their grief and they had not been encouraged to participate in the care of their family members.